Wedding planning is honestly exhausting. You spend a year stressing over seating charts and listening to family opinions, all for one single day. Then the morning arrives and it’s just a total blur. A lot of people told me they felt like guests at their own wedding because they spent the whole night checking the clock or worrying if the food was late. It sucks to look back and realize you missed the moment. You have to actively force yourself to slow down, otherwise you won’t even remember what it felt like to actually get married.